Are you alone this Valentine’s Day partly because you are just too afraid of LOVE! I can attest that this is why I am in my hermit mode on LOVE day! A fear of love can express itself in many different ways. You might sit at home on Saturday nights and refuse to let your friends set you up. On the other hand, you might participate on a dozen dating platforms and meet someone for coffee at least three times a week.
While these may sound like two opposite extremes, the outcomes are usually the same. Your defenses keep you from developing an intimate relationship.
Before you can change, it’s important to be aware of how you sabotage your romantic life. Angela and I spoke about Self-Sabotage and how they are gentle setups by your inner self when you are off track or moving too fast!
Find out what’s keeping you from falling in love.
Altering Your Thoughts:
So take some time today, take a nice spiritual bath and make a commitment to deal with your wounds so you can attract the lover that will give you all that you deserve!
The messages from this week focus on our individual ability to rise above difficult circumstances for the purpose of growth. Everyone knows that certain actions lead to personal achievement. So what stops us from implementing change in our life?
I have to admit! The very concepts I ridiculed in the past transformed my life! What does being spiritual really mean anyway, right? I define my spiritual practice as the sum of the thoughts, actions, and habits that I do with the intention of bringing me closer to becoming the person I want to be. Those practices are based on ancient and ancestral systems of living.
I use spirituality as a tool to maintain my body weight, maintain fitness, eliminate phobias, build social skills, find happiness, improve my finances, and several other facets of life.
There’s never been more information available to facilitate change, yet we rarely seem to make meaningful progress toward becoming the wonderful beings we aspire to become. Why is that?
There are many obstacles to implementing spiritual advice, such as:
Self-Accountability for the purpose of transformation is some of the hardest work you’ll ever do. Be prepared for a bumpy ride. However, if you make small changes, one at a time, your efforts will add up to help make your dreams come true.
So Let’s Look at Accountability and Take Back Your Power
As a child, you may have been told that it’s more honorable to own up to your actions rather than blame others or make excuses. But most of the time, children model behavior more than they listen to instructions. And let’s face it, we are a culture of finger-pointers blaming everything from the weather to the devil for our issues.
Holding ourselves responsible can feel risky. Admitting our faults may threaten our self-image and open us up to criticism from others. It may seem safer to focus on external circumstances instead of looking at our own actions.
The truth is that you could be missing out on more happiness and success by trying to evade responsibility.
Learn more about the importance of developing personal accountability.
Benefits of Accountability:
Tips for Taking Accountability:
Tips for Fostering Accountability:
Accountability is a skill that grows stronger with practice. Take charge of your life by assuming responsibility for your actions. You’ll empower yourself to build the future you really want.
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Divination is more than just laying down cards! It is about understanding what Spirit is telling you using sacred technology. Once you have the what, it is your job to seek out the psychological strategies that help you achieve whatever the card or tool is trying to communicate.
Life is more than just about receiving messages. It is about putting the tactics and behavioral strategies in place so that you can achieve maximum destiny fulfillment! IFA tells us that we struggle to receive the blessings of ORI when we maintain unhealthy behaviors and attachments! Today our holy crew wants us to work on BALANCE!
Today's message comes from Oshun and Ogun. This week IFA spoke of the Odu Ose-Ogunda, the two Odus that house these Orishas. So I was NOT at all surprised when the couple card was cast! These are the two orishas that epitomize Adam and Eve, yin and yang, force and passivity, and divine femininity and divine masculinity.
These powers must be understood because relationship polarity is the most important key to survival on this planet and survival in our lives. Maintaining inner relationship polarity must be achieved before outer balance will be experienced. A balance must be maintained between the sensory and the extrasensory, between the physical material world and the ethereal spirit world.
Balanced relationship polarity is expressed through your mind (your inner divine masculine) and heart (your inner divine feminine) coherence. True happiness occurs when these two containers work together on the inside. As long as we depreciate the outer expressions of these two energies, it will be difficult to balance them within. Below are 7 ways that your life will suffer if you continue to live out of balance.
A life that’s out of balance includes some degree of suffering:
Is your life out of balance? What changes can you make in order to bring it back into balance? It can be a real challenge to maintain balance in your life, but the consequences of failing to be balanced can be severe.
Remember how important your health, relationships, and happiness are to you. Where would you be without them?
Take action today to bring your life back into balance! You’ll be so glad you did!
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