Are you alone this Valentine’s Day partly because you are just too afraid of LOVE! I can attest that this is why I am in my hermit mode on LOVE day! A fear of love can express itself in many different ways. You might sit at home on Saturday nights and refuse to let your friends set you up. On the other hand, you might participate on a dozen dating platforms and meet someone for coffee at least three times a week.
While these may sound like two opposite extremes, the outcomes are usually the same. Your defenses keep you from developing an intimate relationship.
Before you can change, it’s important to be aware of how you sabotage your romantic life. Angela and I spoke about Self-Sabotage and how they are gentle setups by your inner self when you are off track or moving too fast!
Find out what’s keeping you from falling in love.
Altering Your Thoughts:
So take some time today, take a nice spiritual bath and make a commitment to deal with your wounds so you can attract the lover that will give you all that you deserve!
The messages from this week focus on our individual ability to rise above difficult circumstances for the purpose of growth. Everyone knows that certain actions lead to personal achievement. So what stops us from implementing change in our life?
I have to admit! The very concepts I ridiculed in the past transformed my life! What does being spiritual really mean anyway, right? I define my spiritual practice as the sum of the thoughts, actions, and habits that I do with the intention of bringing me closer to becoming the person I want to be. Those practices are based on ancient and ancestral systems of living.
I use spirituality as a tool to maintain my body weight, maintain fitness, eliminate phobias, build social skills, find happiness, improve my finances, and several other facets of life.
There’s never been more information available to facilitate change, yet we rarely seem to make meaningful progress toward becoming the wonderful beings we aspire to become. Why is that?
There are many obstacles to implementing spiritual advice, such as:
Self-Accountability for the purpose of transformation is some of the hardest work you’ll ever do. Be prepared for a bumpy ride. However, if you make small changes, one at a time, your efforts will add up to help make your dreams come true.
So Let’s Look at Accountability and Take Back Your Power
As a child, you may have been told that it’s more honorable to own up to your actions rather than blame others or make excuses. But most of the time, children model behavior more than they listen to instructions. And let’s face it, we are a culture of finger-pointers blaming everything from the weather to the devil for our issues.
Holding ourselves responsible can feel risky. Admitting our faults may threaten our self-image and open us up to criticism from others. It may seem safer to focus on external circumstances instead of looking at our own actions.
The truth is that you could be missing out on more happiness and success by trying to evade responsibility.
Learn more about the importance of developing personal accountability.
Benefits of Accountability:
Tips for Taking Accountability:
Tips for Fostering Accountability:
Accountability is a skill that grows stronger with practice. Take charge of your life by assuming responsibility for your actions. You’ll empower yourself to build the future you really want.
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